“Usha, your drawing is hopeless.” I was in grade two when my teacher said that to me. I don’t think she gave it a second thought. But I did. That one sentence stayed with me, quietly, for most of my life. For years I believed it without ever really questioning it. I found my creativity […]
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Over the last week of August, I did a podcast on LinkedIn Live. And in the days before it, while I was sitting with the topic, something quietly dawned on me. Over the years I’ve managed to withstand a fair amount. There’s been real pressure, a few defining moments, and even illness. And yet through
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What Shaped Me By 2018, recruitment had become mundane to me. I want to be honest about that, because it is not the version of this story people expect. I was not chasing another title. I had stopped caring about titles years earlier. I remember completing a major recruitment project where we filled nearly fifty
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In 2006, I did not have a mentor sitting across the table. I had my best companion since childhood, my books. I had just moved to Qatar to begin a career in HR. Everything felt new. The systems were different, the workplace was different, and I was trying to find my feet in a country
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The Practice of Inner Work It was past midnight. The house was quiet, and I was sitting with a journal I had not opened in years. This was 2025. Three rounds of chemo behind me. Covid on top of it. I could not eat much. I could not go out. On paper, I had no
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For years I helped run teams, sat in the big meetings, carried the title, and still some quiet part of me wondered whether I was actually a leader. Because like most people, I thought leadership was something you are handed. A manager title, a team, a bigger office, a seat at the table. I had
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A personal story about the moment my body stopped me, and the framework I have used with leaders ever since. Most of us think inner strength is something we have to go and find. We look for it in a book, in a course, in a conversation with someone we hope will hand it to
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In today’s world, we no longer have talking mirrors. Now, we have to talk to ourselves. This morning at breakfast, I was having a conversation about perception. One of my colleagues, a director, is often seen by people around him as someone who constantly challenges others and keeps pushing everyone toward the company’s objectives. He
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From magic 5, we became four. I was 16 when my father died. Until that moment, my mother was a simple housewife. My father supported her in every way. She was shy, a little timid, someone who stayed close to home and close to us. Then life hit. And overnight, the woman I thought I
She Didn’t Tell Me To Be Brave. She Just Was. Read More »
The most common question I hear from almost every client who comes to me is this. They think I will be helping them look for a new job, and how to get their dream job. I always wish I had a magic wand. Alas, I am just a coach, and very human. They expect me
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